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How do i get him to fall in love with me?
Hey, I read some of your advice... its excellent and i totally agree with you. I need someone to give me fantastic advice...
So, Im 25 years old and female. I have been in three serious relationships and have dated a whole lot. My last boyfriend and I broke up in a mutual decision. For a year and 1/2 we rarely talked. Now he is back in the picture, we go out on dates often, but he says he isnt sure if he wants to be serious with me "at this time." So, i did what any girl would do... continued to date!
There is this guy that i just started seeing, I feel we connect on many levels. I honestly LOVE hanging out with him. The problem is... he is dealing with the same situation as me! His ex is back in the picture after months apart. I know that its hard to choose, but I am realizing I am liking this new guy more and more, and I feel as if he is liking his ex more and more. He is very aware of my situation with my ex and I am very aware of his situation. I am trying to be patient, but I want this guy to want to be with me... Any suggestions? I want him to fall in love :) with me!!!
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Well, thank you for the compliment! I don't know if I give fantastic advice, but I try my best to help. :-)
That's a tricky situation!
Realistically, if he's liking his ex more and more, there isn't much you can do. You can't change his feelings.
If it were me in your place, I'm afraid I'd end it. I know, that's not what you want. BUT. Why be with a man who wishes he were with someone else? That's not fair to you. I know I certainly wouldn't want to be with a man who was thinking of another woman when he was with me.
I mean, you can stick it out and hope that he will forget the ex, but you run a high risk of getting your heart trampled. Then again, the thing in this life we risk the most is our heart.
Or, you can move on and find that guy out there who wants to be with you, and only you, who you feel the same about.
It boils down to "Do I take the risk, or do I count my losses and move on?"
Unfortunately, those are questions I can't help you answer. You got to decide what is the best path for you to follow.
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