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long distance relationship
ah i know this is wrong but..i just turned 14 and i've known this guy since i was in 6th grade and i met him in a chat room. we went out but i ended it because i thought it was wrong. but i couldn't stop thinking about him and now he asked me out again and i said yes (stupid me). he keeps saying he loves me and i never know what to say back. i never told him my age because i thought he would get mad.. he's already out of high school and he's about 17 years old. i'm going to washington d.c. for a graduation trip and he lives near there and he wants to see me. but i'm not sure...
should i stay in this relationship?
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I gotta be blunt with this one, honey - No, you shouldn't. He doesn't even know your real age. Are you sure you even know his real name? I hate to be a skeptic, because I've met some awesome people on line, but come on. Right now you're not even really in a relationship. You've never met, he doesn't know how old you are, and on top of that it's long distance, AND an internet "relationship." I never really believed in those. I got a crush on a guy I met on line when I was 13, but I'm the kind of girl who needs physical attention (hugs, kisses, etc) from her guy. An on line thing wouldn't do it for me.
Anyway, your age difference isn't the problem here. I know a couple five years apart who have been together forever, and they have a great relationship. The problem is honesty. How would you know he's being faithful to you in this relationship? How would he know you were? Unless you two both trust unconditionally, this relationship cannot function.
Besides, just the way you phrased your question sounds to me like you're asking for an excuse not to. "I know this is wrong but..." "(Stupid me)"
Catch my drift? If you feel that something wrong, ever, or something doesn't sit right with you, there's a reason, no matter what anyone says. I'm a strong believer in woman's intuition, since mine has never failed me.
So listen to your heart on this one. Go with your instincts. If your instincts are to run, then do it. If they tell you to stay, do that. Don't try to put logic to it or explain it out - go with your gut feeling. That's the best advice I can give you.
Good luck!
-Siren =)
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