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Inbetween two guys
This is going to be a very confusing story, please bare with me haha.
Ok, so last weekend i hooked up with this guy John. John and I had been sort of a thing for like a couple weeks and this was the first time we've hooked up. Things were like fine between us for a few days but then he started excessively calling me and i got really annoyed and decided it was time to move on, though he doesn't know that yet. This past saturday we were all out and john and i werent talking that much because he was being annoying, so i just flirted alot with my good friend james who i like now, and he likes me. I have no idea what to tell john or even to follow through with things with james. what should i do?
ps. sorry its so confusing if you need me to explain further let me know. thank youuu
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lol its not that confusing so don't worry about it (: well first things first, you need to tell John that you don't feel the same way you use to. say you like him, you just see you more as friends instead of a couple, let him think its not his fault and that he didn't do anything so he won't be crushed. as far as the James thing goes, i say you should go for it. life is too short not to. if he likes you back, there is no reason not to, even if it hurts John, you're actually doing him a favor by giving him a chance to find someone that likes him as much as he likes them. if you need anymore help, feel free to ask (:
good luck :D
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