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Funerals
My first boyfriend (12 years ago) I was with for over 3 years just passed away of cancer. After we dated a couple years he ended up working with my Dad & sister. My other sister became very close w/ him & all his friends & when we broke up became great buddies w/ all his friends. The wake is tomorrow night & I think it'd be appropriate for me to show my condolances. However, he got married a few months ago & his wife'll be there too. What do you think I should do? Go or not? Won't it be awkward if my sister went & I didn't?
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i think you should go. you guys had a great friendship it seems like. just becuase he was married dont mean he dont want you to come. he is looking down on you and i know he wants you to come and pay your last respects. i know it will seem akward but hey you are all there becuase someone you loved died and you all want to show him how much you all cared and loved him. i think that is what he wanted. but to be honest it would be kinda strange if your sister went and you stayed becuase then people will think okay she did not care about so and so. so i think you should go. it would be your last time to see him
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