Well, I'm 19 and I am in my first year of college. At orientation I met this girl who is great and we hung out most of the summer. I really like her but we both have busy schedules with work and school and we haven't seen eachother that much lately. I dont know if I should cut my work hours or what.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Cux answered Wednesday July 30 2008, 10:47 pm: If you really want to spend more time with her, then maybe yes. I wouldn't cut your hours SO much that it starts to hurt you financially, because you need all the money you can get for college tuition.
I'd say cutting maybe 3 or 4 hours a week would be the most I would. Yes, work will always be there, but right now you should really stick with work and stick with earning money. Having college debts won't be fun, why add to it?
ash93 answered Wednesday July 30 2008, 10:03 pm: Hi, my name is ashley... it sounds as if you want to spend more time with her, am I right? Sometimes being in college can be kind of hectic every now and then especially when you're working, but if you two are wanting to get to know eachother more and develop a better relationship then maybe you both can sit down and share one another's schedules and work... maybe you and her can study together. Work is always going to be there, but don't stress your self out about it... If I were you I would work hard and when you're able to spend time with her then treasure the moments. Don't worry about it... if it's meant to be I have know doubt that the little time shared with one another will matter. [ ash93's advice column | Ask ash93 A Question ]
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