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obsessed guy


Question Posted Wednesday March 5 2008, 6:14 pm

Okay so there's this guy who I find incredibly annoying. I used to hate him, but I decided to lighten up. Since then, he was incredibly annoying. He IMs me the second I get online, and immediately invites me to a video chat, of which I don't want to join! He ALWAYS tries talking to me, and being that he's in almost all of my classes, he's always looking at me. He told me a few weeks ago that he used to have a crush on me, and that he liked someone else. I was RELIEVED! I started being more of a friend to him, and that's when he told me he didn't like this other girl anymore. So he started what he used to do all over again! I'm dying inside, I hate it, it's like he's obsessed with me. I would never date him! I started ignoring him whenever he talks to me. I don't answer him on IM. I don't want anything to do with him! If he likes me so much, why is he being SO annoying. On IM, he asked why I was ignoring him but I didn't answer. I need this kid OUT of my life. I've had the worst week because I already think I like someone else and he's just getting in the way. He's making me stressed out because he's always getting into my business. HELP!!!

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Additional info, added Wednesday March 5 2008, 8:36 pm:
P.S.- It's not a good thing--for any girl in the GRADE-- if this guy likes her..he's not a guy that everyone wants to be liked by.. No one would feel good if he did all this.
I'm afraid that soon this guy will start being overly obsessed, or stalk me, or SOMETHING extreme because it's been occurring for months.
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lynda123 answered Thursday March 6 2008, 8:36 pm:
haha thats funny. Well the best thing for you to do is to let him know that hes getting on your nerves tell him nicely unless you really want to be mean ha but if that was me i would go up to him and be like okay can you please stop bugging me you are getting really annoying and its irritating i mean i dont mind talking to you or anything but you just bug way to much and i really like tis boy and your kinda getting in the way so can you please just leave me alone i mean im not trying to b mean or anything but yea seriously
that is what i would say but just try and ignore him when hes bugging you at school and stuff.

i hope this helps.

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masterclinic answered Wednesday March 5 2008, 10:04 pm:
Well you need to tell him that he is stressing you out. If you don't tell him how do you expect him to stop. Nothing is going to change unless you speak up. I'm sure he will understand and back off. Good luck talking to him if he doesn't back off message me back.

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Cheezball answered Wednesday March 5 2008, 6:37 pm:
Tell him you don't like it. He should stop. If he doesn't stop, just threaten him that you will block him. If he still doesn't stop, just block him. If he looks at you during class, you should feel good that a guy likes you and not feel annoyed. Still, I know this feeling as there is a girl in my gym class who gets to close to me for my own comfort and always walks up to my face and bugs me. This is about my problem any way. Also, if you are not afraid to hurt his feelings, tell him that you don't like him. He could possibly even help you out with the guy your after!

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