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I need advice!
I need Advice im knocked up but i dont know who the father is. See Im in love with two guys, a love triangle you might say. Well the one ive been with for over 7 months and well the other guy i met at a party. My boyfriend is the type of person that everyone want/ everyone dont. the other one is kinda 2 faced...i mean on min. he is all lovey dovey and then his friends come and he just shoves me away. i really, really hope its my boyfriends (the one i have been with for 7 months). and to top it all of they r best friends...so what should i do?? i really hope u guys can help.
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i mean at this point, you need to be the women you are going to become and take responsibility.. i kno it may hurt but u need to sit your boyfriend down and explain the situation... if it meant to be he will still be there...it may be a hard journey but if its love..you can survive anything..
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Well...tell them that it is either one of them. It would be best to just be straightforward and honest from the beginning.
Get a paternity (sp?) test to see who the father is after the baby is born.
Accept the consequences of your actions, and deal responsibly hereafter.
Hope i helped.
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Tell them both it's a possibility and wait for the baby to be born to do a paternity tests (they are relatively inexpensive and there are clinics that can help with the costs.)
Doing anything other then being honest with them both, would be unfair to your child AND make you a pretty shabby person.
You made choices to sleep with them, this is where ya ended up. Dealing with it responsibly and honestly is your only course of action.
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