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ok i've been married for going on 13yrs to the man i truely love and we have one son together..we have had lots of problem..i have been hurt by him so many times..u think it and he has done it..so almost 2yrs ago i finally got enough and left and we divorced..after 2mths went by we got back together..one yr later we got remarried..he promised me he would be different this time around and i really believed him..well after one mth after our wedding we got into this big argument and fight..which i have been real depressed also..well i attempted sucide and was placed in a hospital for 72hrs watch..he called me while i was there telling me he was sorry and he felt it was all his fault..what do say of this?i love him so much and he says he loves me too..but he seems to rather be with his friends and excludes me from his life..he says he is the man of his family..am a real sensitive person and have real lowselfesteem..i feel so alone in this world with no one to turn too.when i turn to him he just gets mad when i try to confide in him..am different than that i would do the total opposite of that..i love to help people if i can..i feel like i have been cursed my whole life..i have no one..oh well enough of me..hope u can give me some advice..thanks
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It would help if I knew exactly what your husband has done in the past to hurt you, but from the sound of it, he has clearly done things that have caused you a lot of pain and damage. Although 13 years is a long time, a lifetime with someone like that is a lot worse.
Now the most important factor in all of this is your son. It is of course very difficult for him to undergo his parents getting a divorce, but imagine how much worse it could be (and has been) for him to be in a broken home. What you do is up to you. If you can seriously mend the wounds of your marriage-and I mean seriously- then maybe there is hope. But it really does sound like your husband is not fit to be a good husband and father. A lot of times, men like him do not change their ways, so be honest with yourself. If you (and your son) want to be happy, then you should probably end the marriage- and this time for good. He may try crawling back, but you have to stand your ground- a jerk is a jerk.
As for your attempting suicide, I would suggest you seek help. There are plenty of sources out there. If you need to talk to a therapist about this or other issues, it could really help, as well as guide you to get help for your past suicide attempt. Otherwise, make sure you go to a free clinic, or even google something along the lines of 'suicide centers,' or 'suicide prevention'...you'll get a lot of helpful information. In the meantime, think things through and take the steps necessary to get your life back on track.
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