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Me and my boy friend have been going out for like half a year now, and we've had a very happy relationship (by happy i mean ive happily slept with him on many many occasions). However I do feel that if I disapoint him in any way this might end our relationship. I know it's a bit foolish but it's just my gut feeling. And here's my problem: about a week ago he suggested that we have anal sex and I agreed but I didnt like it. when he asked me at the time I told him I enjoyed it so now he wants to do it more often. I wouldnt mind it if he wasnt so stretching should I tell him to use something smaller than his own tools or do I risk ending our relationship. Help! What do I do? please answer soon hes coming over tomorrow night! (also just to let you know my parents are strict Roman Catholics so they dont and musnt know about our relationship or I'm "Satan Spawn")
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Usually, i wouldn't answer quesitons like this but i've got to make an exception sooner or later.
Okay, you need to tell him the truth because if you didn't like it, then you need to tell him and he should respect that and he should if he's got feelings for you. Lying to your partner is what ulitmatley brings a realtionship down because neither one will trust each other and for it to work, they need to tell the truth. I know that this will be hard but the truth must get out, one way or another and plus, it would save you some pain (literally!).
As for your parents, there really isn't a lot which you can do about it. Just be careful and go around to HIS house because then there is less of a chance of your parents walking in on you. Plus, don't talk about it loudly. Somebody is bound to snitch and a whole scenario will occur.
I hope this helped, get back to me if there are any points which i missed out on.
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