You said to try and get my friend help, but I don't really know how to do that. I don't know how to talk to him about getting help. He's been pushing me away lately. My mom used to be a psychologist if that helps any. I have talked to her about it, and my dad thinks my friend has to much "mental and family baggage" for me to deal with, like I don't think my dad even wants me to be friends with him. Another issue that's came up lately is my friend having sex with his girlfriend. I'm worried that if he keeps it up he could become a daddy, and he really doesn't need that in his life. The girl is hurting him.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health? xlovexx463 answered Monday February 25 2008, 5:22 pm: Well, asking your dad for help is out of the question I suppose. If your mom used to be a psychologist, does she know of anyone who could help him? Or maybe she could talk to him...
You need to let him know that you want to get him help because you care. Let him know that you're not doing this to make his life more complicated, you are doing it to make his life easier.
As for him having sex with his girlfriend, I'm sorry but that's out of your control. Perhaps though if you get him help he will see that he doesn't need to complicate his life even more.
I wish you and your friend luck! I really hope this helped you out... [ xlovexx463's advice column | Ask xlovexx463 A Question ]
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