Ok I am a 15/f here. I have been with a guy for the past 6 months and I care about him a lot. The problem? Well he kind of treats me not so good, and shows that he doesn't care that much. He says he loves me, but I don't know what to believe. He will verbally be mean, and just not really how he was in the beginning of a relationship. I get that when you get farther in a relationship, things losen up, but this bad?
Also, I recently started getting really close to another guy. I talk to him a lot at school, and out of school. I feel guilty because I know i am starting to like him a lot. He seems like he really cares about me. But he has been single for a while, and I don't know if i can trust him. Anyways, I can't bring myself to think about leaving my boyfriend.
I still love him and I actually get to the point of throwing up, and physically unstable when i think of us ending.
I know that's unhealthy but I don't know what else to do.
If you were in my postion what would you do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Cassiopea answered Friday February 22 2008, 1:46 pm: oh boy...I am currently in some what of the same position. I also get sick thinking about it. Your guy is not letting you grow as a person. If you think this other guy will treat you better maybe you should be with him. I know you love him and you will always love him but sometimes you have to let the things you love go. No one should treat you like that. your boyfriend might say he loves you but do you really know people who treat people they love like that.
I know that it sucks to hear what I have said but I know if you do break up you will get through this. I am having the same issues right now so if you need someone to talk to I am here. [ Cassiopea's advice column | Ask Cassiopea A Question ]
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