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Agnostic vs. Hardcore Catholic.
My mom's side of the family is catholic. ALL of them. My dad is episcopalian, but he's a scientist, so he believes in evolution and all that.
I am agnostic. I shunned the idea of Jesus very very long ago, and have been doubting the existence of god since about 5th grade.
I'm pretty much against organized religion... mostly because my beliefs don't really belong to any set group.
Anyway, i need to tell my parents about my religious views pretty soon, and i don't know how.
Any advice?
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Hi there! I'm sorry it took a while for me to answer your question, but here's my answer.
As parents, your mother and father should understand that there's a possibility that you won't willingly follow one of their religions. They should know that you're not only exposed to what they teach you, but also to what the media says, the opinons of your friends, etc. Your parents need to understand that they are not your only influence.
Have you ever heard the saying, "You get what you give?" Well, it works in this situation: give respect, and you will receive it. As long as you don't disrespect their views, they shouldn't do such a thing to you.
If it's important to you, sit down and talk to them about it. Don't sugarcoat; Rather, be straightforward but nice. State that while you respect their religious views, you feel that not being nondenominational is more suited to you than having a religious affiliation.
Don't be afraid. I'm sure that your parents appreciate the fact that you are willing to communicate with them.
If you have any more questions, feel free to ask me!
-Manders
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