|
bestfriend lovers?
friend im really attracted to but has a boyfriend-karen
friend whos gorgeous but theres no spark and going out with-jessie
okayyy.so im 16-f-bisexual.i found out both my bestfrands are to.karen and me hooked up even though she has a boyfriend she really liked,but we were not exactly sober,but ever time we arent we do and when she was sober she said shed do it even when she is sober
jessie=we hooked up the other night and we started going out that night,note we werent sober then either.i figured shed forget but i guess i was wrong.i dont wanna hurt her,but i also dont wanna keep this going.shes way gorgeous and everything but i just dont think theres anything there.i mean we make great bestfriends and maybe someday ill feel different but for now i dont wanna affect our great bestfriendship(espscially if it goes on too long and something bad ends up happening or big breakup or something.basically i just dont think of her in a sexual manner.i really am gonna have a hard time telling her or anything but i know ill have to eventually.but her and karen dont really talk cause she always been really jealous that i hang out with karen more.me and karen and also bestfriends,we havent been as long,about a year,but karen knew i was bi a lot longer,just one of those people i could really open up to.if we ever did go out im pretty sure it would hurt or offent jessie..i just dont know what to do.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
My advice to you would be try not to lose either of these people as your friends. Friendship is way more important than dating. But I really wouldn't lead Jessie on anymore. If you don't love her in that way, it isn't fair to her. However, if you break it off with her, I wouldn't advice going out with Karen if it would hurt your friendship with Jessie. I'd just keep these girls as your friends for now, and keep your eyes open for that special person to walk into your life.
Hope this helps...best of luck!
]
More Questions: |