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re: hidden feelings.
hi, i dont think you remember me. but i asked you about a month ago..on how my best friend seemed to have hidden feelings for me..or thats what it looked like in my view..and i said i'd give you an update. if ya dont remember its the 2nd one in yoy the feedback...and anyways..things are getting better between us i suppose..though my birthday falls on his 4 month with his gf which kinda hurt..and i never told him that i wanted to spend my birthday with him..and he told me i should have said something sooner..but how was i suppose to know..but his gf has no problem with it..yet he wants to spend it with her..and gahh... it kinda hurts..and then he asked me if i still liked him..and i said yeah.. and i really wish i could let go of this..i've loved him since august..and its getting to be really painful..but im happy for him, i just wish i could move on. :(
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he made his choice - let it be.
right now he is going through his "i can have my cake and eat it too" phase
right now he doesnt appreciate you as much as he should. you are there when he needs you and you leave when he feels like hanging out w/ his girlfriend, it works out nicely for him. truth is, he's taking you for granted.
the right thing for you to do here is be a good friend and let him spend that day with his girlfriend. dont complain about it to anybody or talk about it because it will get back to him.
start to do your own thing. instead of relying on him, start talking more to other guys and friends. once he feels like he's losing you he'll relize how much you mean to him and he'll make more of an effort to make it work.
be good about it. don't fight with him or make it public, just start living your life with other people and he'll gravitate towards you<3
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