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my husband has always called me names he does not defend me to his family who is always cutting my looks down dosent even act like he cares he has hit me and used to say i am sorry he dosent care if he sees me or sleeps sexual with me he dosent care if i am around when we go anywhere he also dosent care if i go to a bar or flirt with other people he also complains about not being able to whatch other women to my sons and other people and to me he said i am all he has to look at besides the wall am i a fool?
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I'm so sorry for taking so long to get back to you, it's been rather difficult lately finding time to look at the column.
Now, there has to be a reason as to why he's behaving like this, there's got to and you need to find out what. NO loving partner in this world treats his partner like this unless he had a reason.
The best way to do this would be to ask him directly. Sit him down and say that you want to talk to him about this. Tell him that it really hurts you, the way he treats you like as if your just another one of his possessions and that his family makes fun of how you look, when you obviously do your best to please them and him.
Begin by asking him the one question which you may not like to ask, it's up to you. Ask him whether he loves you. I know that this may be an absurd question to ask but it's the only way you'll ever know, if he looks taken aback, then he does and will surely ask you why did you ask. Relpy with the second paragraph.
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I hope i helped,
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