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Last year I was a really SHADY person. I lost a couple of amazing friends but we talk now. But I just really miss this one friend and how close we used to be .I know things wont ever probably be the same because idk it just seems like they can never be, no matter how bad I want it to be the same. I know dwelling isnt good and just move on but I still wake up regretting everything .How stupid I was to do something to close friends. Even if I did become close to her again I know im still going to be thinking about what I did. I just hope she knows I think about it almost every day and wish with all my heart I could take it back. When ever we talk its just weird because we’d always laugh bout lil things and know what was going on with each other. Just hopes she knows im sorry
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Well, everybody in life makes mistakes and makes some poor desicions that wind up effecting who they are as a person and how they live their lives, and yes, sadly some desicions effect friendships that were at one point thought to be indestructable. I know it may seem awkward when you talk to them because you feel so guilty about whatever it is you did but in my opinion, if you two are talking somewhat now, chances are your friend is trying to find some sort of forgivness in her heart. You have to remember, a lot of people can forgive others for their mistakes, regardless of how shady it may have been, but they do not forget about the past. Unfortunately, you can't take it back, but what you can do is give it time. Don't let what you did replay in your head over and over and over again. Let it go and live "in the now," rather than in the shadows of your "shady" past. I'm sure if your friend talks to you then she knows how sorry you are but it's just hard to adjust considering you were (from what you're telling me) such amazing friends. Just know that nobody can forgive you for what you've done until you can find forgivness in yourself. Hope i helped. xxo Hannah
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