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my mom && birthcontrol
ok...i have a question about birthcontrol && my mom.I'am a 14year old female and i want to get on birthcontrol but my mom kinda has a problem with that.She doesnt know that me and my boyfriend have had sex or anything and i dont want to tell her either =( so i REALLY WANT to get on the pill or get the shot because i DONT want to get pregnant!!(OO NOO) but how do i tell my MOM that?
like i dropped hints to her that i want to get on one of them but she just blows me off =( ...so what do i do?? .::.K.::.
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well, there is a solution if your mother doesn't allow you to get bc. I can understand her point of view, but it's also not wise to live in denial. In the long run, it could be worse if she doesn't listen to you. I can suggest that to get on birth control without even having to tell your mom about it, you can go to the health department. They legally can't tell your parents about it, unless you are a threat to yourself or someone else. In this case, since its just sex, it is not considered a threat.
If you are dead set about making sure that your mom knows, just go up to her, tell her straight up that you want to be on birth control. Tell her that when and if you decide to pursue an actual sex life, you would rather be safe than sorry. (even though we know you are already active, but she doesn't have to know that). I hope this helps. Good Luck!!
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