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my ex
has a girlfriend
its been a month since we broke up
we were together for 5 months
when he broke up with me i was a wreck.
i was a wreck before i knew he had a girlfriend
now that he does its worse
this is torturing me
i hate this
i cant take my life
my friends arent supportive
i hate where i live
my grades dropped since we broke up
i cant handle school
i know there are worse things happening in the world
but on my own scale this is the bottom.
help me please.
ive been trying to get over him
i had oppurtunities with other guys
i didnt take them because the only guy i can think about is him
i cant believe he moved on so fast.
it was both of our first relationships
both our first kiss.
help me please.
i cant do this.
thanks;
hopelessxx
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It sounds like you are experiencing depression, if it has been a while and you feel helpless, hopeless, unmotivated and tired all of the time, you should talk to a doctor and your parents. I have Histronic personality disorder, and when I break up with a bf, no matter how short we dated, I can't get over it, and it affects my everday quality of life. It is normal to feel sad over the break up, but your going to go through a couple more of them before you get married or settle down with someone...but it's normal. If you seem to be having problems moving on, please talk to your parents about it, and if they won't listen, talk to the counsler at school, sometimes parents don't really understand how serious break ups are for teenagers...remember, us parents grew up in a different generation:) Talk to someone about your feelings, you may find that it really helps just to be able to vent to a complete stranger that won't judge you or call you silly or stupid for having these feelings. Good luck
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This is a sad question. I'm sorry you had to experience something so tragic. First of all, your friends are dick heads if they don't support you when you're obviously so upset. This is a pain that cannot be explained in words, of taken away with words so my advice for you is; cheer up!
Realize that this boy wasn't the only guy in the world, and statistically, you'll have many more before you meet "the one". If he broke up with you because of YOU, then it's a blessing in disguise. You learned that he's way to immature for you and he's inadvertanly giving you a chance to be with someone else [the other guys?]
Take a step in the other direction and give another lucky boy a chance. You will not regret it.
PS: coffee icecream and some good cable will make you happy!
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