ok so I was with this guy for like a month and a half, but it was the best month and half lol. Like three weeks ago on thursday he told me he needed time to think but that we were still together of course I was hurt but I backed off because he lost his job and maybe he needed time. Well it's been almost and month and he has yet to call me back.Then last night after I got home from clubbing I texted messaged him ( I tend to drunk text people) telling him I missed him not thinking he would text me back and he did. He told me he needed to talk to me and he called me sweety and everything (but he was drunk as well) so I really didn't think much of it. My problem is I can't stop crying over him. I miss him so much...I try to keep myself busy but it just doesn't work I always end up thinking about him. Please someone tell me what I can do...I'm so tired of crying over a guy who doesn't even care if I'm alive.It hurts so bad...Please someone tell me what I should do.
My advice is to confront him in person and GET THINGS STRAIGHT. If you have to say things straight up to his face, even if it's hard, Do It.
At least you know what his motives are.
tornaparttonite answered Monday February 4 2008, 12:13 pm: i really wish i could help you, but sometimes its nice to know your not alone. well besides the drunk thing your not alone... my so called "ex" stopped seeing me three weeks ago. i love him with all my heart... together 4 months... what ever you do keep stuff he gave you around and maybe if you have something of his keep it close... therefore you know hes coming back. the guy i dated wont even talk to me and his friends are trying to make me stop trying to see him... whatever anyone says... dont stop. the crying hasnt stopped for me yet but its calmed down at least... i'll let you know when it stops... i promise... i like to snuggle on the bed with a stuffie lol, usually it helps... try to sleep... i bet its been awhile for that as well. and if you need someone to talk to email me.
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