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Okay,
So me and my two other friends got into a big fight. Except its them 2 against me. Let me tell you how this allllll started. Anna went over to Katies house one day after school and Anna lied to Katie and said that I said that she has had sex, and that im the one was telling everyone that she was pregnat [the pregnat thing happened earlier this year]. But, i didnt do any of it. Now, i hate to say this, but we are pretty much the most popular in our grade. And today at lunch, it was plain torchur. They would whisper and then look at me and laugh. And one of the people around them, Brittany, we sit together my last bell and i was talking to her and she said that they were talking mad shit about me behind my back. Ohh, and during that day I was told I wasnt wanted to be at that table, but ofcourse i stood my ground. Please give me help and or advice. I desperately need it. Ive been really sad and I just want to cry. Typing this has made me tear up.
Well, thanks in advance
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Talk to those girls and let them know that you are innocent. Tell them that you didn't say anything and that Anna lied. There's a slight chance that they might not believe you, and I think that Anna will be a hypocrite, but try your best to get everything off your chest and let out all the things that you wanna say and ask Anna [with a serious angry face] "Why are you telling lies!? And what makes you think I would say that?"
Something like that. Be confident! Dont let them bring you down. Stand up for yourself and do what you gotta do because YOU KNOW that YOU'RE the right one.
Make Anna feel guilty for what she did!
I've felt this way before.. a lot of the times, BETRAYED. But I've learned that I have to be strong.
Remember this quote: "He who angers you, CONQUERS you."
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I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and a half now. We're currently living together. We're both still virgins and that's not the problem. My guy... he's just not that affectionate and it's very discouraging to me. When he comes home from work, he won't even come and hug me or kiss me or say hello and it makes me feel sad, like he doesn't WANT to come see me and kiss me. When we go to bed at night, he's just like "good night" and that's it. Nothing more. I really don't think he's losing interest in me, because he's always sort-of been this way. Is there any way that I can encourage affection from him? Any ideas that'll make him want to come give me affection?
Please help! :]
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Surprise him. Yeah! Surprise him with something. Something that will make him think/say "I can't believe you did this for me!" You can surprise him when he comes home from work... with a romantic dinner... or surprise him on your next date..... with SOMETHING romantic that will make him LOVE you MORE [if that's possible] .
I dont know, .. it's the little things that makes your mate smile, laugh, happy. Be creative!
Do something thats different and we'll see how he reacts to it.
Good luck!
;anonymous_girl
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ok so I was with this guy for like a month and a half, but it was the best month and half lol. Like three weeks ago on thursday he told me he needed time to think but that we were still together of course I was hurt but I backed off because he lost his job and maybe he needed time. Well it's been almost and month and he has yet to call me back.Then last night after I got home from clubbing I texted messaged him ( I tend to drunk text people) telling him I missed him not thinking he would text me back and he did. He told me he needed to talk to me and he called me sweety and everything (but he was drunk as well) so I really didn't think much of it. My problem is I can't stop crying over him. I miss him so much...I try to keep myself busy but it just doesn't work I always end up thinking about him. Please someone tell me what I can do...I'm so tired of crying over a guy who doesn't even care if I'm alive.It hurts so bad...Please someone tell me what I should do. (link)
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Awww, well i feel you. i can see what youre going through. but from what i think.. he doesnt care about you anymore. which means you have to move on, even if you really like him STILL. I guess it's normal because I've felt that way too and I've heard a lot of stories related to yours..
My advice is to confront him in person and GET THINGS STRAIGHT. If you have to say things straight up to his face, even if it's hard, Do It.
At least you know what his motives are.
Trust me, it's the best thing to do! :)
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