Okay so I am In highschool in 9th grade so anyway I used to hangout with him all the time in like kindergarden to like 4th grade when he went to middle school and I stayed in elementary and he was my first kiss and we were bestfriends We even pretended to get married in my playhouse when we were playing house and he was always the dad and I was the mom... But he is and was very bad. When I was like 9 or 10 we used to smoke cigarettes in my playhouse and thats when I started and I just recently quit which is very good but back to him he now smokes and does other things he moved to Philly when I was in 5th grade and just recently came back. The thing is I think I am still inlove with him but he comes from a bad family and my parents would never aprove of me even thinking about him but he has a girlfriend but I always catch him looking at me and he goes out of his way to say hi to me and stuff. I think he might still love me and want me or he might just want to be friends again can you tell if he likes me or wants me back and sorry for the long story... I guess I got carried away
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kiran answered Saturday February 2 2008, 11:32 pm: Thats cute and everything but think about it you just stopped smoking, do you think its good for you to hang around with. You don't want to hang out with a guy who smokes. Of course once you start it is very hard for you to stop but you think about it. He may still like you, thats great because you feel the same way. Do you really want a 'bad boy' as a boyfriend? I am not trying to be mean at all. I don't know this guy and of course you know him much more better than all of us here. So its mainly up to you. Its your life. But I think you should stop and think a little. But whatever you choose don't go and start smoking again. Its not worth it. I hope everything goes well for you. [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
mysterytwinkle answered Saturday February 2 2008, 1:25 pm: That's really sweet
But if he smokes and everything, and you just quit, he won't be the best person to hang with. I think you guys are just feeling for each other because you guys were the other's first love. That's nice, but maybe you guys could just stay friends.
Or, this won't be easy, I'm sure, you could convince him to quit on his bad side. Yeah, bad boys are hot, but only to us, 15/16/17 year olds. When we grow up, bad boys are the ones that work in gas stations or go in rehab or something. I don't think he's right for you. Not to sound like an overprotective Mom.
But then again, it's not like you're going to marry him. Bad boys are cute, for now, so maybe you should go for it<33 But don't let him persuade you into doing something you don't want to do.
I think you should do what you want. =) None of us know this guy better than you, maybe you should get together.
It seems like he likes you in the way you like him. You find out for yourself
-Jenni C ♥ [ mysterytwinkle's advice column | Ask mysterytwinkle A Question ]
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