Question Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 6:58 pm
K so me and my boyfriend have only been going out for 3 days and it is so hard to talk to him...i feel so nervouse!!! Please dont tell me " well if you gyes don't talk and feel weird around each other you really truly don't really like each other!" thats what i have been hearing from everyone!!! i really like him and he is way nice and i really want this to work out!! please help! how do i not be so shy around him?!!!!!!!!!!!!!! how do i get the guts to talk to him?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? HCOloverr22 answered Saturday February 2 2008, 3:32 pm: whoa sorry it took me so long to write back haha. your situation is seemingly difficult, but it's actually quite simple. since you two are going out, you must have some kind of chemistry so that's a great blank canvas for getting to know each other. i'd suggest you find out something you two share in common, like a sport you watch or music you both like. you can either find out by conversation, his friends, or maybe his myspace/facebook. then see if there's a concert or a game you could go to. as for just talking to him, the hardest part is taking the first step. once you start talking to him, you'll see how easy it becomes. you already know he likes you- you're going out, so dont feel like you have to have his approval. good luck! [ HCOloverr22's advice column | Ask HCOloverr22 A Question ]
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