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ex boyfriend?
Alright my life story in high school. Well I have fallen in love, with a guy that had a girlfriend. (This is long story short). He broke my heart more than once, and I have forgiven him. He cheated on his girlfriend (I would know) and she knows. She doesn't care. It hurts me even more every day and I convinced myself before that I'm over it but I'm truly not. And they're still together!! I mean me and him talked a lot and were good friends after and stuff, but lately he's been drifting away and it gets my thoughts mixed up.
I don't know what to do!
Does he not care that we don't talk that much anymore??
I might be worrying too much and that's just me, but I need advice on ways to get over it completely, and how to be friends with him and not worry about anything else.
please and thank you!
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I think that it is a good thing that he is drifting away from you, because you don't need him in your life. Seriously ask yourself this:
-Do I want to wait for the guy who keeps on breaking my heart? Can I live without him?
If your answer to both of those questions is no, than you are in it waaaaay to deep. He is just a boy, not your world, not your oxygen.
However, if your answer to those questions were yes, than there is your answer. Plain and simple.
You have to move on and find some great guy who will treat you right, a guy with a MASSIVE glue gun to repair your broken heart. :] yuh know? and that guy is out there, but if your hung up on this one heartbreaker, your just asking for heartache, and ALOT of it. Is that what you really want?
So keep yourself busy. Make friends with other guys and just isolate yourself from him. AVOID HIM. Eliminate him from your life. Being friends with him won't work, because he will always have a special place in your heart, and his fake facade and charm might drag you back into the drama again, you're better off without him and the baggage he brings along with him.
Good luck, it will get better, I promise.
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Although it may be hard, this may be a blessing in disguise. Being friends with him will only bring back those feelings, and even if you started dating him, could you really trust a guy who cheats? You can do better. Trust me, I have been in your position before. I fell in love with this guy and I could NOT get over him, until I stayed away. I didn't call him, talk to him, or even see him. To this day I still don't think of him and I am in love with the most amazing guy. Find someone new, and you'll be happier without him. Good luck! :)
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