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musical vs bf


Question Posted Friday January 25 2008, 7:18 pm

15/f
(srry long)
i have a bf who lives 30 mins away and i talk to him EVERYDAY on the phone and or aim and were like really into each other almost love but we agreed not to bring that up because we want it to mean somtin when and if we say it in the future.anyways the school musical is coming up and we get out late everynite so by the time i get back from that, shower,eat, finish hw, chores i barely have anytime to talk to him. and sometimes on saturdays we have to have practice which cuts in more of time i can see him ( because i see him ever saturday) and even tho we can still see each other sunday....its still interfering...and he doesnt like the idea of not talking to me hardly at all during the week..but he told me to do whatever makes me happy..but idk what i want, i wouldnt be able to stand not talkign to him.
...any ideas...


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Cux answered Friday January 25 2008, 7:34 pm:
Well since I know you, it kind of puts a bias in my answer.. but I think regardless I would still say the same thing.

I think that you should do the musical. I know that sounds rude and inconsiderate, but I know you and I know that you love singing. Singing, being something you love, should be something that he approves of, as he said "Do whatever makes you happy".

I'm not saying you two will break up, but most teenage relationships end either in high school or shortly after. Very few people stay with their "high school sweetheart" their entire life. What I'm saying is.. relationships come and go, and I know that infatuation with your current relationship may be misguiding, but I think that you should do the musical.

That's my honest opinion, and if your boyfriend isn't mature enough to understand that the musical will take time out of time with him, well then he probably isn't mature enough for you ;].

--Jack
(16/m)

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