Question Posted Wednesday January 23 2008, 4:45 pm
Background Info: I have never had a boyfriend, but the reason is because the guys that HAVE asked me out have been known to be cheaters, and stuff, and the ones I WOULD say yes to if they asked me never do.
So I doo hook up with a lot of boyyss. But the thing is, I realllyy want a boyfriend. And all the boys that I do hook up with, I could imagine dating them. I like "fall in love" really quickly, and quickly fall for a boy. Like right now I like some kid I haven't even met yet, but we met through a friend on FaceBook. Oh yeah, and my friend is setting me up with her neighbor, and hes super cute, and I know he will hook up with mee (Oh yeah hook up as in like kissing no sexx) anyways I'm like already picturing after hooking up. THIS IS NOT NORMAL!! Ahhhhh hahha what should I do this is reallyy bad!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? adviceforlife answered Wednesday January 23 2008, 6:23 pm: First off, be carefull who you hook up with. It is also perfectly normal to, I guess you could say, 'look forward' to what you think will happen. However, if you don't think he is looking for a relationship, I wouldn't bother, if all he wants is a make-out session and possibly more, don't do it. I know from experience if you go around making out with guys your just gonna get a bad reputation. I know guys, they will say they did even more.
If it's a relationship you want, go for the good guys not the ones who just want to hook up and if you think this guy wants more than just a hook-up night, then by all means go ahead and try it out. If he tries to go all the way with you, don't let him especially if it's not what you want.
Good luck, I hope this helped.
ABL
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