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ok angie its been 5 days and me n my boyfriend havent talked i dont wanna call him because then hell be a a-hole because it took me so long to call nad talk to him about it. but then if i dont call he might not call and im tired of always being the one to fix everything wat do i do????????????? do i wait or do i call or just let it go?????
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Okay, well there are two things you can do. You can play games and not call each other, waiting for him to finally take initiative and fix this, or you can try and reconcile the relationship on your own. I'm not sure who's job, (per say) it would be to step up and call the other one, but sometimes you just have to be the big person and do it. If you love him, you're willing to work for it right? If not.. well theres not much I can say then..
Give him a call, tell him you're sorry that you didnt call him sooner, but you were sort of trying to figure things out, and sort of waiting for him to call you.
If your boyfriend is being an a-hole, well then maybe this relationship is getting to the point where he feels comfortable enough with you to be an ass, and thats not a good thing. Tell him that the way he treats you is important to you. And if you dont think that that will change anything, then wait a few more days and try and come to terms with all of this. who knows, maybe you just need to take a break for a little while. Maybe if he realizes that you mean a whole hell of a lot to him, he'll come crawling back (and maybe vice versa). really, this is totally up to you, I cant really decide for you what action to take. My best advice is; this problem isnt going away any time soon, you need to get everything out there and talk to him, the question is when. Its totally up to you. Remember how you react to the situation is key, and you should have the best thoughts in your head when you go into it, because if you feel super upset going into it, you will be able to forecast how the conversation will go. Act positively, and hopefulyl he'll feed off of it. And, try and get into the conversation face to face. Call him up, tell him you guys need to talk and then go meet for coffee or something. Good luck babe, I hope I helped!
Lots of Love,
Angie91
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