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what should i do


Question Posted Friday January 18 2008, 10:44 pm

my friends make be feal like im invisable and they ignore me


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BitsandPieces answered Monday January 21 2008, 12:00 pm:
Well there could be more than one truth to this explanation, so let's explore both. You are afraid that they are ignoring you and that may have some truth in it, but nothing is all black and white. Are you a shy person? Sensitive? It may be also true that because you are the least aggressive and least willing to interrupt and get your way, that you feel left out. If you choose to hang with a crowd that does not make room for shy people to get involved in the conversation, you have a couple choices. Get out of the group and hang out with other shy kids...might work for you. The other choice is to break loose of your shell and add some fierceness to your own persona by taking chances in conversations and not waiting for permission to speak your mind. Be strong and you will feel strong. Energy follows thought. If you think you will be ignored you will act in a way that reinforces that perception and feel badly. If you think that you have a choice in the matter and are willing to own your power to change your thoughts and actions, you will start living with power and everything will change for you. Seize the day.

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