People are just people. They are not defined by thier relationships with us. Our friends aren't always right and neither are our partners. Everyone has failings, everyone fucks up, everyone can be wrong.
Listen to the one who makes the more convincing argument. Listen to the one your own good sense tells you to listen too.
It isn't about if you should listen to your friend or your partner, it's about what PERSON is the best one to listen to in a given situation. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
TheAnnie answered Friday January 18 2008, 10:01 pm: friend first because you can trust her more and she won't care what you say/you on;t care what you say to her, friends rate higher, always [ TheAnnie's advice column | Ask TheAnnie A Question ]
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