kay so i have a boyfriend and i like him tons but i get sooo nervous when we kiss. likee i don't know what my problem is, i know i want to it's just i'm like so insecure about everything that i think i'll do something wrong or he'll be like what the heck. i hate that feeling, i don't want him to feel my awkwardness you know?
i've kind of always been this way though, counting my boyfriend [only have like twice so far] now i've only kissed three guys. i know thats not bad, but i really like this guy, he's practically my first real boyfriend and i want to feel more comfortable with him.
also making out, i've done that like once two years ago..it comes naturally right? like is there anyway you can do it wrong?
oh gee i feel like a little kid but hey might as well ask what i'm thinking, any advice is mucho appreciated =]
HectorJr answered Wednesday January 9 2008, 1:35 am: In terms of getting over being nervous about it, a good way to break it would be to just talk about it with him. Let him know that you are nervous because you don't want to mess up and ask him if there is anything you can do. Most likely, he will reassure you or even admit that he might be nervous too. In any event, if you get it out of your system and after talking to him know what to expect, then it should help you feel less nervous, or not nervous at all. Hope that helped and good luck. [ HectorJr's advice column | Ask HectorJr A Question ]
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