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I love my stepsister what should i do?
15/m
I'm in love with my stepsister and i love to be around her also. She is also 15. I wait for the weekends when she comes over. She's fun to be around. I have a severe feer of rejection.
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When she comes over to see the family, how does she act towards you? Does she flirt with you? Or, does she act like it is just a brother/sister relationship?
If you truly do like your stepsister, in all reality, there is nothing wrong with that. You two do not share the same blood, or heritage. It is still a touchy situation.
I don't want you to think I am trying to discourage you, I'm not. However, I always tell people to think about the pros and cons of any situation before jumping. That's what gets most of us into trouble. Leaping before thinking. Lord knows, I've done that one to many times.
I would suggest, getting to know your stepsister and trying to develop a good relationship with her, friends first. This way, there won't be rejection in the sense of denial of unspoken love. Does that make sense? I hope so.
After that, just see where it goes. You never know, she could fall hopelessly in love with you as well. Just keep in mind, it may be a little weird for her thinking that you two could be a couple because of the stepbrother issue. If that happens, don't let it get you down. She may actually like you, but not the situation, so it's not a personal rejection just a situational rejection.
I hope I have helped some, if not, or if you need more advice, then don't hesitate to write back. Sometimes, all we need is someone to listen to us and provide us positive feedback. Good Luck!!
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