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i can easily say i love my boyfriend. i am 18, a senior at my school and when i say this i mean it, i am a hell of alot more mature than anyone at my school. i have gone through alot and dont hangout with one person there. it sucks but ive learned to live with it. its not that im a bitch or ugly, i am just dont good with those people. so anyway, my boyfriend is 24 and lived in boston and went to school there(i lived 15 mins north) we dated this whole summer until he had to move back home an hour away in september. ever since then, things have been great and we hangout weekends and i cannot complain. i usually am not a relationship person nor have i ever gotten attatched, but me and my man are in love. i am so happy, its like hes the only one. he is graduating in may from school and will be a physical therapist and has been talking about moving to cali or florida this summer. he wants me to come but i am nervous i wont like it
would it be a good idea to move in together and start a life there? im just so nervous
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Thankyou for your question.
I'm not surprised you're nervous. It's a huge step to take.
In the end, it is your decision and I can't influence that in any way.
Although I can tell you if you know he's the one, then perhaps starting a new life wouldn't be that much of a bad thing, considering you don't really associate with anyone where you are right now.
It could give you a new opportunity to meet new, better people, too.
It's part of growing up, the way I think of it is like going to university far away from home (I'm from England) to study further. It would be weird at first, but you'd soon settle in.
I take it you're nervous about leaving family and the surroundings you know. but it doesn't have to be a bad thing. You can visit your family and they can visit you, not to mentions the many other ways of communicating.
It's wise to think ahead and know what you would do if you did go. Things like this need alot of planning.
and if you didn't like it, you could always come back home..
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