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it hurts ?
ok so today me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time in about 2 - 3 months . & it really hurt like bad . But it didnt hurt this bad when we did it for the first time , so i said maybe im just a little tight so he said well let me finger you & that hurt it ? i was weirded out about it because it didnt hurt before we had sex ? that was like about 12 . and its 5:30 now ?
any ideas why
oh and after its like my stomach hurst ?
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Well yeah the less sex you have.. you sort of become more tight. Since the vaginal walls aren't being stretched out.. it seems to tighten up slightly. Especially if you don't stretch it out by fingering. This has happened to me. My first time didn't hurt at all.. but months later.. when we took like a three week break.. it hurt bad. The main reason is because you're tight and not wet enough.. which can cause your muscles to tense up.. and it just hurts more. If you're not completely relaxed and 'lubricated'.. you won't be in the mood for it completely. If he's being rough, your stomach will have cramps or it's either a warning sign of your period. My boyfriend's size hurts me a lot so maybe that could be a reason? If you haven't had sex in awhile, it's going to hurt a little if you don't use a lubriated condom. it's a lot easier than trying to wait for you to "warm up". it's not fun.
it hurt for me when i didn't have sex for less than a month so of course it's going to hurt a bit for you..
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Maybe you weren't in the complete mood. You have to be wet for it to work :D.
uhh cramps?
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