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my personality
i really like this boy but he likes kind of the preppy girls and im not like that he knows that i like him but all he cares is to make fun of me, kind of
i really want ot change my personality and i dont know were to start can u help me?
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first off...i get where you're coming from. i'm not preppy either. honestly, when i was younger i used to be..but as i grew older i realized it just wasn't making me happy being that way..something wasn't right..i wasn't myself. slowly, i changed into the person i am today..and i could not be more happy about it. i'm sure you're expecting to hear from me that you shouldn't change ...after all, lets be real here, thats what most people will tell you. i'm not gonna tell you that though...on the contrary...people (everyone in the world) are constantly changing..wheather they realize it or not...some change for good and some for bad.i myself, can find a flaw or something that truley makes me uncomfortable with myself and strive to change it...gradually. its just not something you do over night...bottom line. remember when you watched a movie when you were younger and wanted to be like the person in the movie or on t.v.? and then you tried to change yourself...by the end of the day ya just couldn't do it...because it wasnt you. lol...or maybe that was just me...either way, its similar to what you're asking me now...you see, although tiny tweaks of yourslef can be good... drastically changing your attitide for whatever reason isnt.i mean sorry, it just won't work...and its not healthy. even if you had strong enough will power to make it last a while...it would eventually drive you crazy, and mark my words..would spiral you into a painful world of depression. and about the boy,i know its so hard likeing someone who makes fun of you or dosen't like you back...and its also hard to admit what im about to say...as generic and over used as this expression is..hes not worth it! anyone and i mean anyone who would dare make you feel insecure enough to make you not want to be who you are isn't worth anything. wait...please, you will find someone who makes you feel so happy to be who you really are. and, not to be horrible here, but usually the guys who go for the preppy girls think about getting laid every second of every day..and you dont want someone to like you just for that. think about it...how compleatly dususting is it he would make fun of someone in the first place...can you say insecure about himself? and thats not a good thing either. time heals everything..you can't be with someone who does this to you. here is the best advice i could give you...if you have to ask someone other than yourself the question you asked me then something isn't right, something is outta line, and you've hesitated too long about this...move on to the other millions of boys in the world...belive me...there are SOME decent ones still left. lol. think about what i said, okay. it may not be exactly what you want to hear but you have to admit it makes a lot more sense then going crazy over something that in retrospect dosen't even matter. hope i helped you!
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