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What do we talk about
Hey, i have a question i am talking with this girl on the phone, and like we have all these awkward silences but then again we have some stuff to talk about except i feel that i am doing alot of the talking and i dont' want that. I want to be more of the listener since i know girls like to talk. I don't know wat to do about the silences. I really like this girl but i am focused on too much on what to tlak about that i am not feeling my self and not thinking straight. I am pretty sure that she likes me but i don't want to screw this up.
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Well, despite what you think, girls like to listen to what a guys has to say just as much as they like to talk. We often feel the same way you do. But in order to get her talking, I'd suggest talking to her about things she can engage in...things she's informed about and such. She'd be happy to give her opinion on something she's interesting in. Also, when I have an awkward silence with a guy, I tend to break it by simply saying "so, tell me something about you that I don't know." See, this puts the pressure on them, and quite often it allows a conversation to being.
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