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kissing
i know kissing and making out are where you follow the boy if you dont know how or just go with the flow? well im a type of girl that needs like guidelines or i wont be able ot function because last night the boy i reallly liked and i were askeed to make out and he said sure and i was like fine and i had no clue wat i was doing and so PLEASE HELP i think he made fun of me and i might not get that oppertunity again!
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follow him.
if he made fun of you. then you probably did something wrong.. as in click teeth or something. just follow him
if hes a good kisser he will no what to do. and if hes not a good kisser than why r u kissing him anyway?
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# 1. Keep your breath fresh and your lips soft at all times. You never know when you and the other person will cross paths and have the opportunity to lock lips. Wear lip balm on a daily basis--no one wants to make out with sandpaper lips. If you know you're going to be spending time with them, brush your teeth and bring breath mints.
# Move slowly. The best way to prevent head-butting, elbowing, and clanking teeth is to do everything slowly, especially in the beginning and especially when you're changing positions. As time progresses, you can introduce more passionate kisses, but they can only be sustained for so long. Always return to a slow, comfortable pace.
#2. Make eye contact and smile. Pause every once in a while to meet your eyes with theirs and connect emotionally. This is also a good time to gently lean your forehead against theirs and put your hand on their face. Doing so reinforces an affectionate bond and can last anywhere from a few seconds to an hour. If your partner seems put off, they may be nervous, unsure of how to handle emotional intimacy, or they may not feel emotionally attached. If you're with someone you love, this is the best time to tell them that you love them.
#3 Kiss the face and neck. Vary the kissing routine by moving away from their lips occasionally. Again, move slowly. If you move too quickly, they might not know what you're doing and next thing you know, your lips are crashing into their nose. Kiss the corner of their mouth gently, and make your away along their jawline. You can move up to their temple and forehead, or down to their neck. If you want to kiss their ear, don't peck--the kissing noise is quite loud and can leave a ringing in their ear!
# 4 Hug. Right after a forehead or neck kiss is a great time to wrap your arms around your partner and give them a warm, affectionate embrace. Like eye contact, hugging is an emotionally bonding act. Give both of your lips a rest, take a deep breath, and gently caress their back with the palm of your hand.
#5 Stroke their hair. If your partner is a guy, run your fingers through his hair along the scalp from front to back, all the way down to their neck. If your partner is a lady, you can run your fingers down her hair, letting the strands run through your fingers. Keep in mind, however, that some hairstyles are not conducive to this. If they have their hair tied up or it's quite curly, your fingers might get trapped. Instead, run the tips of your fingers slowly along the top and around their ear, as if you're tucking a stray strand behind their ear.
# 6 Talk. A little verbal communication will keep things interesting. It's not a good time to start a deep conversation. Just a small phrase in a soft voice will work (especially when accompanied by eye contact and a reassuring smile)
i know its a lot but it might help.
hope i helped.
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thats the thing. don't just do what everyone esle is doing be your onn person. you don't want to be embarasses so act like you just don't feel comfortable doing it, play hard to get. you could of the boy that i'm not like everyone else, i'm diffrent and thats the special thing about me, i'm a great girl and if you want my lips take time to learn more about me. isn't that a good answer. i hope you know that you could get diseases by tongue kissing which is making out. thats like swapping spit which is like drinking after someone, go make sure you're okay.
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