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friendship this is regarding the new school-friends thing, thats what i have been doing, being nice to everybody, smiling, saying hi all the time and they still do it. they still ignore me. so now, i am tired of being so nice all the time when i get nothing in return for it. Now i just keep to myself. it sucks.
-Western
p.s. any advice?
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i know how you feel
you see i moved to a new school this year as well.
so for like the first week it felt like i was alone and i had no friends
but specifically what i did was that in all my classes i started talking to the people sitting next to me, not in an annoying way tho. like saying something like hey, im kinda new here and well do you know a good place to eat and stuff...
hopefully that should start a conversation on where you live and their favorite place to eat.
also if you are waiting in the lunch line say stuff like, is the food here any good
get to know you teachers as well
i know it may seem hopeless and hard but im positive you will make some new friends
also im not saying you have to be friends with everyone but this is a way for you to meet someone you will be friends with soon
good luck!
oh and i also want to add that when you are being nice, dont be giving money away or helping them on tests, because then they might take advantage of you
also you have to keep up the kindness and be patient because it takes time to find a friend
one more thing, dont not talk to someone because they look weird because you never know, you guys might become very close
sorry i worte so much! ]
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