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i just found out my bf has been cheatin on me for the past 2 years on and off. well i forgave him and were just friends... well my ex starte a bunch of rumors and now hates me adn my bff likes my ex... well i got kinda jealous but got over it... i just found this all out today. well my ex cant see my friend cuz he isnt over me but wants nothing to do with me which is understandable. well im tellng everyone im over my bfs shit and want to be his friend but no one knows i loved him not even him and i am really hurt by everything right now. my bff hooking up possibly with my ex who i used ot care about and my bf cheating on me... i just dont know wat to do with my life. im moving to oregon and want ot meet someone new but i dont know anyone there and im worried no one will like me how do i get to meet someone new and get over this shit ....
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If you are moving in order to get away from everything, it is not a good idea. Running away never solves anything. If the move is for other reasons, there are positives of not having anyone there know you. Because of your recent events, it is important to be positive so that it will be a good experience. No one will know of your past to make it a constant reminder, to show pity or choose sides. No one can judge you on any of that. You have the opportunity to start over new. Don't be shy. Make efforts to talk to people. Smile. Meeting people will happen and if you want to find a guy, don't rush it. It will happen when you least expect it. Having this feeling and knowledge of starting fresh will help you get over your pain. Don't think no one will like you. I'm sure when you meet someone, they will be worried about the impression they are making on you. Don't stress the move. Welcome it with open arms and relax. Things will get better for you. If you need any more help with this, contact me. Good luck xoxo
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