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embarrassing. major. im prolly gonna have to wear a paper ba
im a 14yr old grl in 10th grade and i have a bf, but we are not sexually active cuz im just not ready. (he's 16) but i do masturbate. however, last nite my bf came in and snuk upstairs w/out me knowin he was ther. and i was touching myself when he walked in. im not sure if he knew wat was goin on but i majorly jumped and was like shaking for a half hour i was so embarrassed.
we hung ouut and watched movies for awhile and then when he got into his car to go home he rolled down the window and was like, "bye babe, ill be thinking of you tonite too." so idk how to deal w/ this. im totally mortified!!
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Well, first of all, in my honest opinion, that was very disrespectful of your boyfriend. He should have knocked first before going into your room. BUT, he was turned on by it, which in my opinion is a lot better than being turned off.
Also, to put it into perspective, the majority of people masturbate. It is not unheard of that girls touch themselves, too. Also, if you do ever become sexually active with him (after you are put on birth control and buy lots of condoms, of course!), chances are you will be a lot more comfortable with him.
I would just go on as if it never happened. If he mentions it again and it makes you uncomfortable, casually tell him that it was very embarrassing for you and you would rather not talk about it. If he's a good guy he won't ever mention it again.
~Maria, 16
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