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how do i get my boyfriend to really want me
i have been dating this guy for a while and we havent been doing well lately. we love each other but he doesnt seem to make an effort into seeing or talking to me. how do i get him to want to see me and want to be with me?
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Sometimes love just is not there, but sometimes it is a game of push and pull...or up and down like a see-saw. So, if you have been pushing him or pushing for more than he is giving, it is what may be causing him to pull away and leave you hanging. Back off for a while...just give him enough space to come back to you and then eventually he will.
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He is obviously going through something. Maybe he doesn't wanna drag you down with him or feel like he's dumping his problems and emotions on you. Tell him you want to be there for him. He might be keeping it inside becasue he thinks you will see him differently or break up with him. He might be afraid of your reaction. You need to show him and tell him how much you care about him. Assure him that he can tell you anything. Let him know how bad it hurts you that you guys are apart.
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Ask him why he aint talking to you.And what is wrong with me and you.Why WE acting like this.
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Well, what you want to do first, is make sure that he knows that you are uncomfertable with the way things are going. Then, if problems get worse, or just continue, you might consider breaking up. But, if you truly dont know...well, what i usually do is sit down, and on a peice of paper, and list all the pros and cons of him, or you alls relationship. ZIf it ends up in a tie, call a friend, but dont tell them what the sccore is, but ask them to name one pros or con. It works, but just focuss on talking to him!!
Hope this works out between you 2, and i hope i was some help!
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Hey
ok well the only thing i can think of maybe talking to him about it maybe he feels the same way about you so you shold talk with him even though you mght not want to i think it is the only way
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