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i like my boyfriend's friend!
me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 1/2 weeks and before i went out with him i had a crush on his friend tom. i noticed that tom liked me bc he asked for my cell phone and was about to put his number in but there was another tom in my contact list and he got upset about it and whenever he talked to me he would come up with random things to talk to me about. i tried to be friends with tom but he never got to the point of asking me out. obviously tom didn't tell anyone that he liked me bc then him and my bf would be in a fight. i am not really into my bf that much, now hes kinda turning me off and we not reallydo anything that much but he asked me to the movies yesterday and i couldn't go bc i was busy. now whenever i try to talk to tom he ignores me and is starting to get really jealous but he is still nice to by bf. the problem is if i breakup with my bf and flirt with tom then i think he might not ask me out bc is my bf still likes me then i don't think he would want to get in a fight about that. so what should i do about this and also how can i breakup with my bf bc hes starting to bore me. thx in advance!
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well let me ask you something...
which is worse:
being rejected because you tried or being depressed because you didnt?
Basically what i am trying to tell you is my outlook on life. You never know what can happen. You just got to take what you can. You learn from what ever mistake may come your way. If you dont try something with tom, you will go your whole life thinking he couldve been the one, but you could also loose your current boyfriend who could be the one. Not saying that either of these boys is the one. Your young, guys will come and go. But to make the decisions about the ones that stay, you have to listen to your heart. That is one of the wisest things you can do. Your heart is right 99.9 1/2% of the time...
xoxo
teardrops7
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I think you should go with what your heart tells you. I know I may not be much help, but its true... just follow your heart and see where it leads you.
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