Question Posted Wednesday December 5 2007, 10:44 pm
hehe well 16/f. umm today on the bus i made a new friend with this really cool guy named Antonio. he's really cool. i kind got to know him. i asked him alot of questions like what does he do for fun? where he lives? umm stuff like that. well i kinda do like him. but yeah i wanna get to noe him. wht r some other ways to get to noe him? and how should i flirt with him without making it obvious??
Additional info, added Thursday December 6 2007, 8:18 pm: and another thing he told me that he doesn't really talk to anyone. and i noticed he does that to me to lol he's really shy and quiet and im like the only person who's friends with him so yeah. . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? RachYay answered Thursday December 6 2007, 2:16 pm: Aww thats really sweet =)
Well, having conversations are the best way to get to know someone, so keep trying to talk to him.
Well when you spoke to him you obviously got a good idea about what kind of guy he was, so play on his interests
Also, you could try and make him laugh so that theres a really good atmosphere and also give him compliments, but not too many as that would be making it obvious.
You could try something like "i like your jacket... where did you get it?"
though you should only say this if you really like his jacket hehe
Whatever it is about him that you like then tell him, but keep it subtle and if you're lucky, he'll give you a comliment back or flash you a smile hehe
You should also try to keep eye contact (but not too much so that you're staring at him otherwise he might get a bit freaked out hehe) and smile so that you're subtly letting him know, without saying anything, that you're enjoying his company and like talking to him.
Just be yourself and you'll be fine
Hope that helped and good luck =)
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