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Shy Boy
ok you seem to be really wise and give good advice so maybe you can help. Please don't make fun of me. I'm a 15/f freshman. There is this boy i like who is a Junior. His name is Ryan. He is what you would call a super genius. He seems really shy and sweet. I asked some of my Junior friends about him and they said he was a sissy/pansy but i don't care. He has never spoken to me before. I left a note saying "your really cute" and "you're very attractive" in his locker. I called him last night and asked him if he got them he said yes. I asked if they bothered him, he said "a little bit because i didn't know who they were from." He does not have a girlfriend. He's in my lunch and always sits alone. My question is how can i get to know him enough for him to start to like me? thanks sooo much!
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Well, talking to him in person would be the next logical step.
Notes are flatering and cute, but they don't help someone get to know you. Without following up on it, you just seem creepy. You might start by inviting him to eat lunch with you or with you and your friends.
Asking questions is the best way to for people to get to know eachother. Ask about hobbies, interests, classes, anything you know he is into. If he is interested, and not stupidly shy, he'll ask some questions too.
First conversations, espcailly when you both know that at least one of you are interested, can and will be awkward. There is no getting around it. You just need to summon up your courage, smile and plow through the awkwardness.
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