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How can i show her i can be that guy?
14 male and shes 15 female
Ok well we use to be right in love untill she dumped me for alot of reasons. The she wanted me back but I was at the movies with her and I drank some it made her angry with me. Then that night i got supper drunk and wanted to cover it up and my sister helped me, bad idea I know. Anyway she liked me again and then that night my little sister came and told her the truth, not really a bad thing but it completly messed it up. Anyways then one of my freinds dies and I was going through a rough time and my best freind Jake is talking it even worse, even though he didnt know him that well but kindoff well. Anyways for the past week I have been stuck trying to help my best freind and help things with her too. And today I was getting picked on by my freinds and they took my hat outta my bag and she called me up and was like "i know who has your hat" and all this shit. She said she was trying to be flirty, but I was a real jerk I called her relly pathetic and imature, I was supper pissed and I barely get made over anything. So here comes my question. How do I show her I can be the guy she wants to be with the rest of her life? like in her msn she put "thoughts are very beutiful things but actions speak louder incase you havent heard" or something like that. But I want to make her show im willing to do any and everything to be with her, so what are some sweet things I can do to show her this? She also thinks im fruity to, but I dont know, I just need some sweet things to say and do. But she is hard to convince like really hard she is not going to accept bull shit! but she has told me maybe 5 times she is moving on but everytime I screw up she says im done or something like that:s But I just think that is her secret way of saying "I really want to be with you, I just really need you to try harder for me"
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I would show her your good side for starters, like taking her out on dates or sending her flowers, something from the heart.
In the process, i would try and get my priorities straight, if your really, really want to be the love of her life then some serious attitude changes are in order and one of them would be this drinking. Try and cut down big time because if you're getting drunk at 14, then imagine what you'll be like when your 25. Scary to think about, isn't it?
Speaking of your age, doesn't it in the least bit bother you that you've got a girlfriend at 14, a time where you're learning about who you want to be and what you want to do. Give the relationship a tiny little break and in that break, think about whether you want to have a girlfriend yet or not. I know this may sound very 'motherly' and what not but seriously, think about. Don't waste the most important points of your life over a relationship, it should be at school and developing who you are.
Good luck for the future
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It seems to me you already know the answer to this question. You just havnt figured it out yet, the answer is exactly what you said try hard... dont drink so much i know that one is hard for me. Explain to her that you need to help your friend out right now through a hard situation but can we hang out later? if she really likes you just being sweet to her will be good. But it seems that she really doesnt like your drinking habits. Anyways hope iv helped a little bit. Id love to hear how it turns out email me back.
Short N Punky
PS. if she doesnt understand that you are trying to help a friend in need she really aint worth it.. girls come and go friends are for life!
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