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a chick with a problem
here's the deal...
i'll admit it... i'm a whore
i've shagged like 10 of my closest friends recently
and have too many 1 night stands to count
but i'm stuck in this situation where everyone now thinks i'm easy... and i find it so hard to turn it down... ok and it's not cos i love the cock... even tho to be honest i do... but it's cos i can't say no
ever since my first shag this has happened
i'm only 16 but i'm stuck
what do i do?
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Thanks for your Q.
Well firstly, you've admitted you're easy. and in a strange way, that's good you finally realize because now you can do something about it.
You're young, 16 - PLENTY of time left for sex.
What's done is done, you can't change that. and unfortunately, you're probably going to have a reputation for quite some time. You need to learn to say no. You need to understand sex isn't a game. It's something you share with someone special - not thrown around to anyone who's willing - because lets face it - no guy is exactly going to turn down sex.
You need to respect your body and make the right decisions. From now on, if you ever come into a position where you could have sex - just stop and think. WHY should you do it? Yes, it's enjoyable - but does the person deserve you in that way? Probably not.
You will realize this when you find someone special.
I'm being honest, this question has got me stumped in a way. I don't see why you can't simply just say no and take control over yourself for once. There are more important things than sex. Think about them. Do things to take your mind off it. You're too young to be caught up in this. You're too young for a child. You're too young to worry about infections and diseases.
Just slow down.
You're the one who will benefit from it in the end. and you can finally start to get rid of the rep you already have.
Stop and think.
If you really can't break this, I strongly suggest counseling.
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