okay..so..me and this guy have had a thing since like 7th grade. and we dated this year, like on and off like 9 times. because of some problems. but i won't go into those. and we finally got through those, and we were really good. but i made a huge mistake and told this guy i liked him too when i didnt (well for like a day, but then i was like well i dont like you anymore), and hes like yeah we had a thing. and he told people. but we didnt. and now the guy that i actually really like..love, doesn't want to even like consider me anymore. and i don't know what to do about him, because i seriously care for him more than anyone else in the world, and i'd do anything to get him back. i've tried talking to him about it, but i don't know how to make him understand..any advice would be great. thanks. =/
first start of by telling the guy you USED to like, that he needs to stop telling people that you had a thing when you didnt, and stop lying about it.
second, talk to this boy, that you likelike alot, and tell him the truth. yes, the truth hurts, but its better if he knows it and your honest with him, tell him how you really feel about him.
if you two have been on and off for a while, and no on in between, he must really really like you back too.
he might not understand, but he might.
im sure that he has made mistakes with other girls too, maybe not the same, but he probally has.
and this was just your time to make one with another guy. but its not like you cheated on him or anything right?
tell him that, be nice, try not to yell.
and just tell him to think about that.
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