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another question for you...
okay well you answered my question about that but i have one more question... what should we do if i am pregnant? should we wait till he gets off probation to tell everyone? can he still get introuble? ect.
please help.
thank you!
question before...
my boyfriend has been locked up and he had just got out the other week. hes on house arrest for a month && probation for 3. part of his probation is to not have contact with me at all. but the other day we hung out secretly && we had sex. now we think i may be pregnant. im going to take a test/ my first question is IF IM PREGNANT CAN HE GET IN TROUBLE? CAN HE GET LOCKED UP AGAIN? IF SO WHAT WOULD HAPPEN? and my other question is HOW SOON SHOULD I TAKE THE PREGNANCY TEST? we did it on friday the 23rd. my period starts on the 12th/13th every month. any advice you can give me would be great. please help. i dont want to get him locked up if i am pregnant and if i do keep it. please help.
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yeah, keeping it a secret would be a smart thing to do. if no one goes and tells his p.o. about it, and no one finds out that you two did this while he was on probation, then he shouldn't get in trouble.
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Hon, what is he in trouble for? That could make a difference.
How much longer will he be on probation? You will start showing at about 4 months. Prenatal care for
a teen is a must. You will have to let your mom know about it if you are pregnant.
I will just cut to the chase on this one. If he is
in trouble because he is older than you and was caught, he will just be in trouble all over again
even if you wait.
If he is not older than you, and as irresponsible as this was I will guess this is the case, then your best bet will be to admit it and get it over with.Hiding it will just make it harder on him in the long run. I don't say this to be mean either.
The boy is not thinking straight.
I know it will be very hard to do but you need to keep away from him if his probation says to. Sooner or later you will be caught. Someone will drop in on him or listen to a phone conversation
and it won't be pretty. Encourage him to follow the rules, as hard as they may be to live with.
I wish you weren't going through this. This is to much drama for a girl your age! All this worry isn't helping. It can make your period late or
just make you skip one. Take a test a week or so after it should come. Write me back with the results and I will be happy to help you deal with it whatever the outcome. In the meantime, try
not to worry. :)
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