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really weird lifestyle.
16/f. (might be wrong category..sorry) This could be very long and its sort of a rant. I need help. Please.
I'm a very introverted person. Sometimes I would be so extremely happy because I have nothing big due in school and because my social life is okay. Just okay. And other times, I'd just lock myself in my room, and have that stressful atmosphere weigh me down, while I, comforted by the quiet room, would do my homework in silence. Or read. Or just be on the computer. At moments like these, I'd just reject the entire world and act moody towards everything and anything that moves or talks. I don't have many friends, and the ones that I have provide no comfort or happiness to me. I have no boyfriend and never did. And I long for male affection. I have no affection from anyone at all. My parents...I don't want them near me. I talk to them and we're okay sometimes. But I just want them farther away from me. I'm desperate for that tiny ounce of male affection and whenever a male hugs me, I realllllyyyyyyyyy just enjoy that moment. I don't know how to go about getting a boyfriend though, and so I sink in my own loneliness and despair.
I just don't know WHAT to do about this. I don't know where to turn.
I have been told that I'm good looking and smart. By many people. Yet I don't believe any of it. x_x I'm lost. ..Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Just, any.
Sincerely,
Lost and Confused.
Thank you so much in advance.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
one place to start is at home.. i think if you and your parents had a better relationship you would feel better about yourself. ik it may be awkward but be straight forward and tell your parents you want to hang out with them. you want to talk. etc.
umm guys are guys so if you really want one.. let them come to you. but you got to put yourself out there. guys are shy to and they arent going to come up to any girl to talk to them and ask them to hang out. you have to show some kind of 'welcoming'. just saying hi or whats up shows some kind of interest. and someone could like you and you not know it.
perk up some.. and dont be so down about a boyfriend. they are stressful. and they will come.
hope i helped
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Dear lost and confused,
maybe no guys will date you because you dont really talk to many people, GET YOURSELF KNOWN!
dont be so shy, meet new people, introduce yourself.
guys will start falling for you if you do cute things for them, or if your just being yourself, dont try to be someone your not.
but you can't be depressed all the time because then no one will want to talk to you and it will just make things worse.
hope I helped darling.
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