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am i showing signs of becoming bye?
16/f
for about a year know ive been staring to develop feelings for some of my friends, but these are my girl friends not the guy friends! ive never told any one this because i wasnt actually sure if it was happening. but now im actually catching myself having sexual fantasies about girls, as well as guys! ive had sex with a guy and im not real interested in having ity with a chic cauz i just dont see how that works but its just the bodily contact that gets me into trouble with my girl friends. i even have a bigger problem cuz i just rescently found out that one of my girl friend crushes is bye and it's taking alot out of me not to tell her how i feel, but then again i dont want to tell her cuz she has a bf and i have a bf!
does anyone think that i might be bye? if i am what shoul i do about it???
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Hey. Yeah, you might actually be Bi. But it's not a bad thing to be bi! I mean, I'm straight but alot of people that I know are bi. It's nothing to be ashamed of, you can't help who you're attracted to. I don't understand why the last person said 'sorry to say' becuase it's nothing to be 'sorry' about. This attraction might just be a phase. You should try to focus on your boyfriend for a while, and if you find that your feelings for this girl don't change then I think you should tell her. You never know, maybe you'll try out a relationship with her and things don't work out and you find that you're not bi. Or maybe things will work out perfectly and you'll be happy with her.
It's nothing to be ashamed of, I think when you feel brave enough, you should go for it.
Good Luck!
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sorry to say, yes it seems that you are bisexual, but the smart thing to do its keep it quite for a while. and see see how your friends feel about it without being obvious and don't tell your friend about your feelings untill you are sure she is comfortale enought to handle it.
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It sounds as if you are bi curious. Only you really know though. Everyone is a little bit gay or bi. For most of us it isn't too confusing though. What you need to do is this. Be honest with yourself. Your mind and body knows exactly what it wants and needs. You have one life and you should do what makes you happy. If you decide that you are interested in girls or in one particular, maybe talk to them about it. Since it's new to you and yuo are embarassed somewhat, i'd suggest to not come on too strong or anything. You wouldn't want your friends who aren't bi to feel awkward. Girls are better with the whole bi thing than guys. Maybe hang out with the bi friend of yours and as her about how she knew she was bi and just tell her that you've recently found yourself wondering about girls. She could probably help you with the thoughts and you would get to experess your thoughts with someone face to face.
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