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cathy and her stupidity
MY QUESTION AFTER YOU READ: Do you think Cathy is jealous of my relationship with Mark even though when I worked for him he tried to make me quit.I spoke to Cathy on the telephone.Every time I talk to her she puts Mark down and the people that Mark hired to work for him.She says that Mark is a jerk and stupid and the people that worked for him (excluding me) is stupid. When I worked for Mark he tried to make my life miserable, (I figured it out and so did my mom that it was only because he missed Stephanie ((his secretary before me)). He wanted me to quit so she could come back. (YOU see I suggested that he ask Stephanie to come back and he loved that idea) But I pushed him to get me placed somewhere else in my company. He set up interviews in departments I wanted to explore and then when I chose a particular department he made sure I was placed there. Also on my last day working for him I told him if he created a position that needs computer work only that he should hire me and he said "Definitely". (YOU see I am a wiz on the computer). And when he comes to the department I am working in he always makes sure to seek me out and say hello. Also now he got promoted to a very high position in our company. I even made a card (congratulating him on his promotion) on the computer, and mailed it to his house. Yesterday he came for a meeting and seeked me out again. MY MOM says: that if Mark really hated me and my work he would have either found a valid reason for firing me or continued to make my life miserable and if I was the type to quit I would have. But Mark really likes you but just wanted his secretary back.. Also about a month ago when I spoke to Cathy on the telephone: Cathy told me that when Tom Stevens comes to my department I should not talk to him until he approaches me because my coworkers would get upset. That is stupid. I know Tom since 1997. You see Tom is my bosses boss and Tom came to my department last week and he was happy
I just want to add what else Cathy said: (1) that she thinks I should not stay in the department I am in for the last year because I am not benefiting from it
I like my job and I like my coworkers. Cathy told me when people ask her what company she works for she is too embarrassed to tell them.
and the other thing Cathy said to me that the only reason Mark got me into another department at a position I am overqualified for is that he would hope I would quit from there.
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I think she really doesn't like Mark. She seems very insecure and attention-seeking.
I think you need to talk to her, calmly, and ask her why she really doesn't like Mark. Its possible he was nasty to her or something. Either way, I wouldn't really trust Cathy.
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