Question Posted Saturday November 17 2007, 10:12 am
I'm a guy, I always feel these girls like me, but then I find out they have boyfriends and whenever im around them they seem to respond well to me but when there with there boyfriends I kind of ignore them and they seem to ignore me. And when I get to know a girl pretty well and we both want to hook up and stuff she suddenly gets a boyfriend, does that mean she no longer wants to hook up? but ok, the real question is how do I actually know if there attracted to me and I should put the effort of trying to get with them as opposed to just forgetting about it and moving on??
Professor_Kaos answered Sunday November 18 2007, 9:48 am: You just need a slightly different approach. If you are attracted to someone, find out right away if they are seeing anybody. That way you know. Second, if you find them attractive, let them know very early you feel that way. That keeps things from falling into the friend zone. If a single girl knows you are attracted to her, she will either be happy you are and hope to keep you that way or she will be not interested and will want distance things. You don't have to go overboard with the compliments to let them know you think so. Just saying something like "you're a very attractive girl, your boyfriend is a lucky guy" will kill 2 birds with one stone. If she says "oh i dont have a bf" well why do u think she want's you to know she's single? [ Professor_Kaos's advice column | Ask Professor_Kaos A Question ]
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